as David Bowie would kind of say.
My husband just got offered a faculty position at a school about 90 minutes away from NYC - in Connecticut.
For one day we were scared and argued a bit.
Even though this decision dictates a host of significant changes in our lives, somehow, after the initial fear passed, I was glad that something came along that forced our hand.
My biggest fear/problem is feeling stagnant. It drives me mad. I'm not afraid of change most of the time - as long as it's creative or thoughtfully approached.